The difference is the grace of
The Almighty!
Look around us, the beauty
colorful flowers, colorful wildlife,
and all other diversity
decorate the world.
Imagine if we only knew
black color of course! What a dark
this world! :-)
Without the existence of differences and the colorful,
we will not feel alive
and as beautiful as vibrant as today,
right?! :-)
So too with life, every
beings are always dealing with all
different kinds and colors
life.
But unfortunately, not everyone can afford
see differences as richness.
Many people feel tortured by
aka differences they can not afford
enjoy it.
Various forms of crime begins only
because of differences. Whether it's the difference
color, religion, ethnicity,
principles, or simply an opinion.
Actually, the difference is not something
which could be avoided. Every person is born
with the differences and uniqueness
respectively. Starting from the difference
physical, mind, pleasure, and
others.
It is not possible all the same thing.
In fact the similarity was not actually
always profitable.
Just imagine, if all people
have the ability to lead, then
who wants to lead? If all
people become parents, who would
so the child? Who will also
receiving alms, if everyone
destined rich?
Differences exist not to be
appliance division. Many positive things
we can get the difference.
However, it must of course all
parole. Well, whatever terms
must be met?
Following them ...
1. The way we look at the difference.
Think positive and be grateful
any difference. Suppose that the difference
as wealth. How to view
right to give birth right attitude.
It's good we seek equality
first, before seeking
differences.
2. Manage differences as possible.
Deliberation to reach agreement
is the appropriate way to manage
differences.
Practice to appreciate, accept,
run and responsible
towards joint decision, although
contrary to our initial ideas.
3. Always reposition everything
in place.
We work together with others,
channel potential, character, interests
vary in a position 'right'.
This will encourage the achievement of
common goals and support
development potential of each
individual.
4. Never underestimate others.
Whatever and however the condition or
opinions of others, treat them
who we want to be treated properly.
Suppose that everyone is important. Their
has its own role, who could be
can not be replaced by others.
5. Do not self-assertive or arrogant.
Felt themselves the most important and more
better than anyone else * not *
add more value to us. Anyway
we can not live without others.
Be concrete in buildings. Although
does not appear, but the fact is
which became a strong buffer
buildings. :-)
6. Find an assured source of information
truth.
Differences may arise because of information
wrong. Therefore, make sure
sources of information are guaranteed and we can
reliable truth. More
Great if accompanied by evidence
support.
7. Correction of yourself before
blaming others.
Constantly blaming others
will not help us much. Can
so the error is actually located on
ourselves. Therefore, self-correction
own first is
The most prudent step.
So, stop deplores the difference.
Because if not, Your will
lose a source of happiness! :-)
Always to Your Success!
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