Your critics are your Cake
That's a terrible sentence passed
Halle Berry, Oscar-winning actress through
James Bond film 'Die Another Day' in
year 2004 when a Razzie trophies
Award.
Razzie Award is an award that
given to those who judged
bad acting. Label the worst player
Halle was obtained after play
its role in the movie 'Cat Woman'.
He is the man who first
directly come into place providing
award.
No other Actors and Artists
before that could come and
only to deliver his message through
video.
His speech was very interesting: "I
receive this award from the heart.
I regard this as a criticism
for me to perform better in
My next films. I still
remember my mother's message that ... 'You
not entitled to be praised if you do not
can accept criticism '. "
Standing applause as
form of amazement from the audience
very enliven the evening. Yes,
very few people who can afford
Halle accept such criticism.
Well, now, what is the meaning of criticism for
Your? Is that a bad accident?
As an unexpected disaster,
or ... symbol of self-destruction? Is there
can consider it like a critic
receive praise?
Critics have many forms ...
Criticism can be advice, chat,
satire, joke, until diatribe spicy.
Naturally, if everyone does not like
of the criticism.
However, it is more fun
if we apply and perfect,
satisfy everyone and get
praise.
But who can guarantee that
we can be safe from criticism? We Tokh
only human with all
limitations. And in fact, in the world
there're more people who like
criticize, rather than criticized. :-)
If Your love football, surely
commentators often observed in
issued a statement of spiciness.
Though not necessarily their brilliance
criticize others in comparable
with the ability if asked
plays his own ball on the ground. ;-)
Not to mention scholars and observers
politics, yournomi, and social. Their
-yack to public comment,
statement as if they were the most
true. :-)
But that's not the problem!
The question now is ...
Your case criticized,
the pain exceeds a slap, what
Your should do?
The answer is ...
=> Enjoy every criticism like
our favorite cookie!
Could it be? Why not! :-)
We have full authority to
control over our feelings.
Your tips for the face
criticism:
1. Change Your Paradigm Against Critics
Your, not a few people who fall
only because of the criticism, though not
all criticism is correct and necessary
addressed. In fact, criticism shows
there are * still * matter to us.
Consider companies
must send a large variety
survey to find out his weaknesses.
Imagine if Your have to do
the same thing, spending much money
only to find out the deficiencies
Your! LoL. :-)
Criticism is an opportunity for
self-correction. Of course it would
nice to know
we lack direct, rather than
just received the impact, such as
ostracized for example.
2. Find out what the critics point of view
There is no harm in finding out details
criticism that was delivered. Your can
learn from them and do
Your self-correction on. Could be
conveyed criticism is true.
If necessary, instead look for people who
willing to give criticism as well as suggestions
to Your. Your Tokh will not
be low with it.
On the contrary, those opinions could
so open a perception, insight, and
new paradigm that supports the goal
Your.
3. Criticism is not necessary met with criticism!
Respond to criticism wisely. Your
should not feel angry or
put it into your heart. Anyway
express an opinion is the right of all
people.
Enjoy whatever they
convey. No harm to
mema'afkan light in someone.
Suppose that all of that to repair
Your profitable future.
Your Never reply to criticism with
criticism. Because this will only
create debate, draining &
mind. There's no point ...
4. Accept criticism with a smile. ^ _ ^
This is all we can so that mental training
can * tough * facing big
more intense in the future.
In short, we are only feasible
commended if it dared to accept
criticism. Although not easy, continue to hone
Your courage to enjoy criticism
Your just like enjoying the cake.
Remember, praise and appreciation will only
come when we've done
something valuable.
So, do not ever get bored to hunt
criticism, and respond to every criticism with
gracefully! :-)
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