However, angry at the right people,
with the appropriate level, at the time
appropriate, for the right purpose, and
with cheese, it is not easy. "
- Aristotle, The Nicomachean Ethics.
Able to master emotions, often those
underestimate the problem.
In fact, intelligence alone is not
delivers enough person reaches
success.
Rather, good emotional control
becomes an important factor determining
success in one's life.
Emotional intelligence is an illustration
mentality of someone who is smart in
analyze, plan and
solve problems, ranging from
mild to complex.
With this intelligence, one can
understand, recognize, and select
their qualities as human beings.
People who have emotional intelligence
can understand others well
and make decisions wisely.
Moreover, this intelligence-related
closely to how a person can
applying what she learned
about happiness, love and
interacting with others.
He also knows his life purpose, and will
responsible for all matters
happened in her life as evidence
high emotional intelligence
owned.
More focused on emotional intelligence
achieving a successful life
* Does not look *.
Success can be achieved when
someone could make a deal
involving emotions, feelings and
interaction with others.
Evidently, the achievement of success in
material does not guarantee satisfaction
someone.
In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (which
also known as the "EQ"),
introduced through the world market.
Stated that a person's ability
to handle and use emotions
appropriately in any form
interaction is more needed than
intelligence (IQ) of a person.
Now, let's see, how
emotions can change all the limitations
become extraordinary things ....
A rich millionaire in America
States, Donald Trump, is an example
conscientious in this regard. In the year 1980
until 1990, known as Trump
enough real estate tycoon
successful, with personal wealth
estimated at one billion U.S.
dollars.
Two successful books written at the height
career, namely "The Art of the Deal
, and Surviving at the Top ". But the road
through which Trump did not always
smooth ...
Your remember the depression that hit the world
at the end of the year 1990? At that time
property stock prices tumbled even participate
drastically. Until the time
last night, Trump's life becomes very
opposite.
Trump is highly dependent on
This should bear the business property
loans totaling 900 million U.S. Dollars!
Even the World Bank has predicted
bankruptcy.
Some of his friends who suffered the fate
Similar thinking that this is the end
their lives, to really
end her life by way of suicide
self.
Here the emotional intelligence Trump
really tested. How not
when she expects sympathy from former
his wife, he actually asked to provide
all remaining property in lieu of
loss of their divorce.
People who are regarded as a friend
Nearby went away
granted. Great cause
support for Trump to despair
and give up on life. However it
did not commit.
Trump precisely this view that
opportunity to work and change
circumstances. Although he was financially
had lost everything, but there
"Intangible assets" that remain
owned.
Yes, Trump has the experience and
strong business understanding, which is far
more precious than all his property which
ever!
What happens next?
Fantastic, six months later Trump
've managed to make a deal
largest in the history of business.
Three years later, Trump could
earn a profit of U.S. $ 3
Billion. He also managed to write
his latest book which was given back
Search for "The Art of The Comeback."
In this book tells Trump
what happened to her bankruptcy
it makes it more wisely,
strong and focused than ever before.
Indeed, he thinks, if only disaster
It does not happen, then he would not
ever know his true friends and not
will make it more rich than
previously. Incredible is not it? :-)
Emotional intelligence gives a person
determination to rise from failure,
also bring strength to the
someone to stand up
fear.
Not the same way as intelligence
brain or IQ, emotional intelligence present
on every person & can be developed.
Here are some tips on how to
honed emotional intelligence:
1. Always live with courage.
Exercise and dare to try new things
will provide a variety of experiences and
open mind with a variety of
other possibilities in life.
2. Always responsible in
everything.
This will be a way to be
gain the trust of others and
not easy to control us
surrender. "Being accountable is being
dependable "
3. Dare to come out of your comfort zone.
Trying to get out of your comfort zone will
allows us to explore many
pp.
4. Recognizing the fear and try to
to deal with it.
Doing this will build a sense of
confident and able to guarantee
there is definitely something that all
solution.
5. Be humble.
Willing to admit mistakes in life
it can improve self-esteem
us.
So, Overcome Your emotional intelligence!
Karena controlling emotions is
one of the important factors that could
Your route to success and control
also enjoy a colorful life. :-)
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