few who want to 'hear'.
In fact, if we want to return to law
nature, we should be more
many hear instead of speaking.
Did not God give us two
ears and only one mouth? :-)
Likewise if we see in infants
newborns. Auditory
functioning earlier than
other. So why listen more
difficult than talking?
Although invisible to hear
is an easy thing, but in reality
many people prefer
listened to than listen.
Listening is an essential part
which determines effective communication.
Without good listening skills,
usually will appear a lot of problems.
What often happens, we feel that
we are the most correct. We do not
interested to hear opinions
different and depends only on the way
us.
Always being right, most competent,
and never make mistakes.
Duh ... angel time! :-)
If we always feel that our self
true, and how it is our most
right, that means we never
listening.
The ideas and opinions is very difficult for us
changed if the facts do not support
our beliefs. Even if there are facts
else we may only be just
Just glance at it.
Maybe this time we are comfortable with
our way but for the period who
long, people will resist and
hate us.
If we want to start listening
others, then someday we will
realize our mistakes. Answer
to overcome this trait is
active listening skills honed.
Listening is not always with the lid
mouth, but also involves the participation
we are active. Not good listening
hope the coming turn to speak.
Listening is a commitment to
understanding speech and feelings versus
talk to us. This is also a form of
appreciation that what other people
talking about is beneficial to us.
At the same time we can also
take the maximum benefit from
talks.
Art of listening can build a
relationship. If we do
well, people will be interested
interaction with us and we will
more harmonious.
Here are techniques that can be easily
Your practiced by very
fair to become a listener
Good:
1. Maintain good eye contact.
This indicates to the other person
about openness and sincerity
we
2. Forwards.
This shows our interest
on the subject. This mode
will also remind us to
has sudat another view,
ie not just focus on myself
us.
3. Create a question when there are things
need clarification or any information
we need to investigate new from
conversational partner.
4. Create a distraction talks
Interesting. This could create
conversations more lively and not
monotonous.
5. Wing_descendant or repeated a few words
spoken by the conversational partner.
This shows that we indeed
listen well to the memorized
some sample words.
6. Make a commitment to understanding
what he said, although we do not
love or anger. From here we will
know the values that apply
conversational partner, which may vary
with the value that we pursue.
By trying to understand, can
so we will find a point of view,
insights, new perceptions or consciousness,
the unthinkable by us
previously.
A really good listener
almost as interesting as the speaker
good. If we are always on the pattern
correct for a certain period,
then one day we will feel
benefits.
The process may be felt long and
tedious, but will eventually
seemed worth the effort that has
we do. We would feel more
good for ourselves, our relationships,
our friends, our children,
or employment.
Conclusion: Be a listener
well, because these properties can be
Key to developing the mind
positive, and is one
Your ladder to success! :-)
Next week I will send
article on "Tips How
Creating Change "
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